You Don’t “Lose” Virginity, You Gain Experience…and Pleasure, if done right

A good long while ago, I read author Peggy Orenstein’s wonderful book Girls and Sex: Navigating the Complicated New Landscape all about the weird hangups and pathologies surrounding female sexuality from which we suffer signally in this country. An important moment in the book for me came when the author was discussing the concept of [...]

Communication as Imposition: The Satanics of so-called Free Speech

The purpose of this post is to stake out some particularly Satanic religious ground in the problematic struggle over so-called “free speech” in a liberal democracy. I will argue that communication—understood to minimally comprise the two acts of signaling intent to communicate, followed by relaying a message—is a form of imposition on the sovereign attention, [...]

Eroticizing the Mundane: A Satanic Take on Sacralizing the Mundane

From the TMI file: My approaching 42nd birthday reminds me that I am deep into middle age. I’ve been married for a little more than a decade now to a woman I’ve been with for a tad over fourteen years. We have two young children together. In case you didn’t already know this, all of [...]